|
The Last Frontier: Is Reconciliation
Possible After Sexual Abuse?
My name is Laura Davis. I'm the co-author
of The Courage to Heal. I have also written three
other books about healing from abuse: The Courage to Heal
Workbook, Allies in Healing and Beginning to Heal. I am honored
that my books have helped millions of people around the world.
They have helped me, too. I am a survivor of childhood
sexual abuse, and I know how hard the process of recovery
can be. That's why I've spent the last fifteen years supporting
survivors and their families.
I also know from personal experience how it feels to be
cut off from your family because of childhood sexual abuse.
I have felt the anguish, grief, frustration, and loneliness
caused by damaged relationships with siblings, parents, and
children. In the last two decades, I have fought with my family,
been cut off from them, tried to ignore them, and ultimately
learned to make peace with them.
If you had told me 19 years ago that I would have loving
relationships with my family today, I would have said you
were crazy. That's how much of a surprise our reconciliation
has been.
If your life has been affected by sexual abuse, too, and
you're wondering if there's a way to heal the rifts in your
family, I can help you. I can't guarantee that you will
end up with your mother, father, sister or brother back in
your life (in some cases, it's better for you if they're not
in your life), but I can guarantee that I can help you find
a deeper sense of peace and resolution than you have today.
"I now know I can love things about
my brother and still hate what he did to me. Thank
you for making my heart large enough to contain such complex
and honest feelings."
-Antonio, San Jose, California
"Thank you! Your healing
words are essential and full of love."
- Tatiana, Chicago, Illinois
How does this work? Let me start by telling you my own story
of abuse, family hostility, and reconciliation.
Nineteen years ago, I remembered that my grandfather had
sexually abused me when I was a child. I was completely
devastated. When I told my mother what her father had done,
she felt betrayed and angry. But she wasn't angry with my
grandfather. She was furious with me for tarnishing the memory
of a man she had deeply loved.
I remember how I felt as I hung up the phone. I had never
felt more alone. My mother had let me down when I needed
her the most. I couldn't imagine living without her support.
I had no choice but to shoulder the burden I carried and find
my own path toward healing and wholeness-without her by my
side.
Every day of that year was a living hell. I was 28
years old and suddenly my entire life revolved around the
incest I'd experienced as a child. My days were filled with
flashbacks, panic attacks, and terror. I lived from therapy
session to therapy session, barely hanging on in-between.
I couldn't imagine getting through the pain.
It was at this point that Ellen Bass and I decided to
create The Courage to Heal to help women and men
who wanted to heal from child sexual abuse. At first,
my job was to interview survivors of childhood sexual abuse.
I sat with more than a hundred of them, one at a time, as
they poured out their stories of humiliation, brutality, and
cruelty. I listened to their grief, their anger, their anguish-and
their incredible determination to survive. I cried with them.
I raged with them. I understood them. Because I was a survivor,
too.
I heard countless stories of families that had been torn
apart by sexual abuse. People who'd lost their families
described feeling cut off, adrift, without an anchor.
I knew what they were feeling because I was deeply alienated
from my own mother. At that point in my life, my rule
was simple: if you believed me when I talked about the incest,
you were in. If you didn't, you were out. I surrounded myself
with people who supported me. I found safety in a culture
of my peers.
In 1988, when The Courage to Heal was first published,
my relationship with my mother went from bad to worse.
Suddenly our family's dirty laundry was being aired in public,
and there was nothing she could do about it. My mother felt
humiliated and angry. She desperately wanted me to recant,
to say it had never happened. Just as desperately, I wanted
her to "break through her denial" and acknowledge
what my grandfather had done.
Feelings of betrayal ran deep on both sides. From my
point of view, my mother had abandoned me when I needed her
the most. From hers, I was not only spreading lies about my
grandfather, I was now doing it on national TV.
Our relationship remained at an impasse for years.
I desperately wanted to reconcile with her, but I was only
willing to do so on my terms. And since it was clear that
she would never believe me, I feared we would never speak
again.
Fortunately I was wrong. Today, my mother and I are very
close. In fact, we're closer and more loving than we've
ever been.
My mother spends her winters here in California now.
We take walks, go the movies, and eat dinner together. We
play Scrabble and I beat her every single time. She teaches
silly songs to my kids and takes them out to the theater.
We do all the normal things mothers and daughters should be
able to do together-and it feels great.
Today, my mother is there for me in good times and in
bad, and I am there for her as well. Most remarkable of
all, my mother and I feel relaxed with each other. We can
be ourselves. We can laugh together. No one's walking on eggshells
anymore, or waiting for the other shoe to drop. And considering
where we started, that's an amazing accomplishment.
The reason my mother and I are close today isn't because
I forgave my grandfather. It isn't because she decided to
believe me. And it's not because I stopped telling my story.
My mother and I are close today because I discovered the
basic principles that make resolution possible, even in the
most damaged relationships.
I'd like to share one of the most important of those principles
with you now.
No matter how deep the rift with your family, you
can achieve one of these four kinds of reconciliation:
- Deep transformative reconciliation in which both
people change and both people experience healing and growth
in the relationship
- Reconciliation in which one person changes his or her
expectations so their perception of the relationship
changes, whether or not the other person makes significant
changes
- Reconciliation in which core issues stay unresolved, yet
both people agree to disagree and come up with ground
rules that allow a limited, cordial relationship
- Resolution within yourself when no viable relationship
is possible with the other person
No matter what your situation, I believe you can achieve
one of these four types of reconciliation, too. And I can
help you discover which one is right for you.
For the last fifteen years, working as an author, speaker,
and workshop leader, I have helped hundreds of thousands of
people, inspiring them to heal and free themselves from
the emotional suffering that had plagued them for years.
My first book, The Courage to Heal, sold more
than a million copies around the world and has been translated
into eleven languages. It-and the three other books I
wrote about healing from child sexual abuse-cracked the code
for healing from abuse and provided a lifeline for people
all over the world. I feel both grateful and honored to have
been of such service to other survivors.
"I love your book. Sometimes it's
so real it's like looking in a mirror and I have to put
it down. But I will never again feel that no one
understands, because you do."
"The Courage to Heal
has touched the deepest part of me,
the part that has been walled off and silent for twenty-five
years. You have spoken the words for me that I was unable
to utter."
"Thank you hardly seems like
enough to say. You have changed the direction of
my life in a positive way with as much impact as
the incest changed my life in a negative way so many years
ago."
In the years since The Courage to Heal was published,
my own healing path has continued to evolve. After reconciling
with my mother, I decided to study what paths others took
to reconcile with their estranged families. My research led
me to write I Thought We'd Never Speak Again: The Road
From Estrangement to Reconciliation, which offers practical
advice and inspiration to people dealing with family rifts
caused by a wide variety of problems, not just sexual abuse.
Here's what people are saying about this book:
|
"Leave it to Laura Davis, who opened a whole generation
with The Courage to Heal, to once again give us what
we need-a way to come home to each other and ourselves."
--Natalie Goldberg, author of Writing Down the
Bones and Thunder and Lightning
"This positive, yet realistic guide to repairing
broken relationships is filled with the compelling stories
of real people weighing the risks and benefits of re-connecting
with estranged loved ones before it is too late.
They do so in a remarkable variety of ways, some with
cautious trepidation, others with relieved abandon.
Laura Davis leads the pack, courageously modeling her
own experience of reconciliation with her mother after
years of painful separation."
--Esther Giller, President and Director, Sidran Traumatic
Stress
Foundation
"With prodigious love and wisdom, Laura Davis
shows us ways to reconcile with our own fear and pain
and rage, if not always with our adversaries."
--David C. Hall, M.D. Family Psychiatrist and Author
of Stop Arguing and Start Understanding: Eight Steps
to Solving Family Conflicts
"Laura Davis provides crucial guidance for anyone
who needs inspiration, courage, and guidance in making
peace with troubled relationships. Davis' powerful
stories teach us that by bridging the separations between
us, we heal what is fragmented within us."
--Charlotte Sophia Kasl, Ph.D. Author of Women,
Sex, and Addiction,
and Finding Joy
"As we hunger for authentic expressions of peace
and reconciliation, Laura Davis has given us a true
gift. She offers pathways for us to let go of pain,
bitterness, fear and even hatred. She presents a
continuum of reconciliation that goes far beyond simple
answers and allows for the individual needs of the involved
parties. Davis eloquently presents her message that
attaining peace in our lives must be first anchored
within our own personal journey of healing."
--Mark Umbreit, Ph.D., Founding Director, Center for
Restorative
Justice and Peacemaking, University of Minnesota, School
of Social Work
"Davis builds a web of hope that human beings
can indeed move on, even when relationships have been
painful and very destructive."
--Ron Kraybill, Professor, Conflict Transformation
Program, Eastern Mennonite University
"Davis' stories reveal the complexity and challenges
of reconciliation with individuals who have caused great
harm. Persons seeking such transformation need boundaries,
time, and most of all choices, and Davis shows us
that there are multiple doors through which even the
most damaged and estranged individuals can find a healing
path toward reconciliation."
--Gordon Bazemore, Ph.D., Director, Community Justice
Institute, Florida Atlantic University
"With warmth, humor, and sensitivity, Laura Davis
teaches us personal and practical truths about healing
painful, broken relationships. She does not offer
simplistic answers, nor tell us that there is only one
way to reconcile."
--Greg D. Richardson, Restorative Justice Institute |
 In
the time since I Thought We'd Never Speak Again was
published, I've been traveling around the country talking
to people about healing and reconciliation. Survivors
of sexual abuse, parents estranged from their children over
accusations of abuse, and other family members have repeatedly
asked me to come up with a resource that would help them resolve
family relationships damaged by sexual abuse. So I began interviewing
people about the paths they'd taken to find peace with members
of their families and inside their own hearts.
I found their words and their stories so compelling and
inspiring that I decided to share them directly with you.
So I created The Last Frontier: Is Reconciliation Possible
After Sexual Abuse? This twelve-tape audio program lets
you listen directly to fifteen extraordinary men and women
who have found peace-in a truly remarkable variety of ways-with
their parents, their siblings, their children, and in some
cases, their former perpetrators.
"These stories were
amazing. Once I started listening, I couldn't stop.
I had tears streaming down my face and my husband had to
drag me away periodically to eat something. When I went
back to therapy and told my therapist what I had done, she
asked me which story was my favorite. I couldn't tell her
because I loved them all."
-Antoinette, Brooklyn,
New York
In The Last Frontier, your clients will hear
stories filled with courage, healing, and real dignity. They
will meet:
- , who learned
about her brother's abuse when he wrote her a self-serving
letter four months before her wedding saying he was sorry
for abusing her. Celia was furious at his misguided "apology"
and didn't speak to him for eight years. At that point,
he apologized again, this time sincerely. Today, with the
help of family therapy, Celia and her brother are carefully
negotiating a new relationship.
- , an angry,
self-destructive New England cop who finally found the courage
to tell his parents about the abuse 30 years after it occurred.
When they broke down and apologized for not protecting him,
his world opened up and everything changed.
 Listen
to an excerpt of Jack's story as he talks about how his
relationship with his parents has been transformed. Click
here to listen now.
(Download the free Real
Audio Player )
- , who finally
got up the nerve to tell her parents about her abuse by
a family friend while she was growing up. She expected support
and compassion, but instead was viciously attacked. To safeguard
her healing, Elizabeth cut ties with her family. She hopes
to reconcile with her family one day but, for now, is using
her time of estrangement as a safe time to heal and grow.
For her, the most important kind of reconciliation is with
herself.
Listen
to an excerpt of Elizabeth's story as she talks about how
she decided to say "no" to more abuse from her
family. Click
here to listen now.
(Download the free Real
Audio Player )
- , who refused to talk
to his family for years because they denied his abuse and
he couldn't stand the hypocrisy. Now he has made peace with
them by "agreeing to disagree."
- , who grew up
in a traditional Korean-American family and found she couldn't
directly confront her parents about her father's abuse.
Jenny healed under their roof for 12 years and never once
broached the issue with them. The reconciliation she successfully
reached regarding her parents took place without their awareness
or involvement.
- , who gradually
rebuilt her relationship with her mother after seven years
of estrangement and then cared for her mother during her
battle with ovarian cancer. Molly says the greatest gift
of those final months with her mother is "knowing I
can't predict the future."
- , who began
making peace with her family after ten years of estrangement
not by using words, but by sewing a sampler of her mother's
favorite psalm. She put her love and her intention to reconcile
into every stitch she took, and her gift opened the door
for a renewed relationship with her whole family.
Listen
to an excerpt of Pauline's story as she talks about the
moment when she was able to see her father as a human being,
not just as an abuser. Click
here to listen now.
(Download the free Real
Audio Player )
- , who was the
mother of five young children in the 1950s. Trapped in an
alcoholic marriage, she took her anger out on her children,
often terrorizing them. Years later, after he husband died,
she learned that he had sexually abused the kids. Miriam
has made amends to each of her children and has successfully
reconciled with four out of the five. She has dedicated
her life to helping other Jewish families face up to the
reality of abuse.
Listen
to an excerpt of Miriam's story. Here she and her daughter
Shelley are talking about how they balance dealing with
the past with building a new future. Click
here to listen now.
(Download the free Real
Audio Player )
- , whose son
abused his sister, spent years dealing with her daughter's
rage and her son's denial. She prayed that her two children
would one day speak again. She got her wish when Mike finally
owned up to what he did and deeply apologized to Stacy.
In this story, Jane, Mike and Stacy each describe their
family's healing journey from their own unique point of
view.
- , who has spent
a lifetime learning to deal with her father, a manipulative
man who never stopped trying to get the best of her. Despite
the urging of many people to forgive her father or to write
him off completely, Staci has persisted in finding her own
path to wholeness.
Listen
to an excerpt of Staci's story now. Here she is describing
a wrenching, but honest therapy session with her father.
Click
here to listen.
(Download the free Real
Audio Player )
-
family, who was torn apart when it came out that Jose had
sexually abused both of his daughters. Jose went to jail
and the whole family started therapy. A year later, under
close supervision, Jose moved back in. In this interview,
twelve years later, the girls are grown and the whole family
discusses the risks and benefits of reunification.
- , who found
a way to make peace with parents who were active members
of the False Memory Syndrome Foundation.
- , who
sued the pedophile priest who raped her when she was five-and
won. Now an activist for clergy abuse survivors, Cynthia
has struggled for years to reconcile her own relationship
to the church and to God.
- , who made peace
with his father in the last days of his father's life. He
came to know his father in a whole new way as he sat and
watched his father's cremation.
Listen
to an excerpt of Paul's story. Here he is talking about
his final visit with his father. Click
here to listen now.
(Download the free Real
Audio Player )
- who participated
in a weekend retreat that brought together survivors and
recovering perpetrators to discuss ways to stop child sexual
abuse.
To accompany these powerful interviews, I've created a
200-page Workbook to help you apply the wisdom in these stories
to the dilemmas you are facing in your own life. As you
listen to the stories and complete the exercises in your Workbook,
you will discover whether or not you want to seek reconciliation
and learn what you need to do if you choose to proceed.
"I thought I'd never see my son
again because the gulf between us was just too great. But
just last week, I saw my grandchildren for the first time.
Thank you for giving me a glimpse of the future
before it's too late."
- Anita, Winnipeg, Canada
The Last Frontier will never tell you what you
"should" do. I don't believe there is one answer
that fits everyone. The ultimate goal of reconciliation isn't
necessarily rebuilding the relationship-it's achieving a greater
sense of peace and clarity within yourself.
"Success" is determined by your deepening sense
of acceptance of your circumstances, rather than by the degree
of face-to-face reconciliation you achieve. In some relationships,
deep healing is possible. Other times, a partial or limited
reconciliation can be considered a great success. Still other
times, walking away and grieving for the relationship is yourbest
possible solution.
My core message is that there are many roads to peace
and many types of reconciliation. Throughout The Last
Frontier, I stress the importance of personal choice. Here's
what I say about it in the introduction to the audio program.
"Listening to these tapes does not commit you to
do anything. Rather, you are opening your mind to possibilities.
You will determine for yourself whether these possibilities
are right for you. I'm not going to give you six easy steps
to mend broken family relationships. I am not going to tell
you what you should do. Rather, I have created these tapes
as an opportunity for reflection and meditation.
"My hope is that you will be inspired to explore
your own situation, your own needs, your own desires, and
your own heart. What you do with the information is up to
you. Whether or not you attempt reconciliation is a personal
decision, one you should make clearly, carefully, and consciously."
I have the utmost respect for your ability to figure out
the solution that makes the most sense in your family.
Whether it's trying to mend the relationship or letting go
and moving on is entirely up to you. I created The Last Frontier
to help you find your own answers.
"When my therapist suggested I listen
to The Last Frontier, I worried that you'd tell me I had
to forgive my father. Once I realized that you weren't going
to do that, I started listening. I was immediately captivated
by the courage and beauty of each person you interviewed.
Thanks for making these amazing stories available to me.
I feel like I have companions on my journey, helping me
figure out what's right for me."
-Nate, London, England
What makes The Last Frontier such a unique and
valuable resource?
-
No other resource on healing from sexual abuse has dealt
with resolving family relationships years after the initial
disclosure. The assumption in most books on healing from
abuse is that people are either with you or against you-if
people believe you, they are" in" and if they
don't, they're "out."
Until now, there has been no discussion of the gray areas-when
you still love your brother despite the things he did to
you, or when you long to talk to your mother even though
she's never acknowledged the truth. What should you do when
your father is dying and you have to decide whether to see
him one last time? When your daughter is getting married
and both you and your son-whom you haven't seen in six years-want
to go the wedding? When you wake up one morning, after a
decade of swearing that you'd never speak to your sister
again, and find your heart starting to open?
There has been nowhere to turn for answers to these questions.
No one has created a definitive resource for family members
wondering how to repair relationships damaged by sexual
abuse. The Last Frontier is that resource. It cracks
open a new world of possibilities for resolving relationships
in families where abuse has occurred.
-
Since The Courage to Heal was published in 1988, I have
been deeply committed to supporting survivors of sexual
abuse. I have traveled around the country, talking to thousands
of survivors and therapists. I have received tens of thousands
of letters and emails from survivors and family members
all over the world.
I have also attended conferences, taught workshops, given
lectures, and continued to deepen my understanding of child
sexual abuse and the healing process. I have championed
the cause of survivors publicly and been a willing spokesperson
for survivors who didn't have a voice.
I have personally put myself on the line time and again
because I am passionate about ending child sexual abuse.
Having been through the difficult healing process myself,
I understand the trauma of abuse and the ups and downs of
recovery. I know this territory very well. And I have been
there for survivors for many, many years.
- I recognize
the courage and determination with which survivors approach
their lives and their recovery. I also understand their
vulnerability and their deep need to be in charge of their
destiny. It is with the utmost respect for this need that
I created The Last Frontier.
The Last Frontier never tells you what you "should"
do or what you "have to" do. Rather, it presents
a wide range of open-ended possibilities, leaving complete
control and freedom of choice in your hands.
-
Although not every relationship can be reconciled and not
every relationship should be, I believe that everyone can
find greater peace and resolution in their relationships.
Although I can't predict what will happen in your family-each
situation is unique and what works for one person won't
be right for someone else-I guarantee that listening to
The Last Frontier will help you feel more peaceful and resolved.
"The Last Frontier taught me
that there aren't just two options when it comes to dealing
with my family-slamming the door shut or flinging it open.
There are myriad pathways in between. Thanks for
opening my eyes to a wide range of possibilities I never
considered before."
-Jacqueline, Midland,
Texas
Here are some real-life results from people who have listened
to The Last Frontier and used its Workbook.
A survivor and her parents who had been bitterly
at odds for a decade-and on the verge of suing each other-attended
a cousin's wedding together peacefully.
Two sisters who were pitted against each other as children
reached out to one another as adults and began building
a whole new relationship.
A mother and daughter who'd been fighting about whether
or not the abuse occurred learned to "agree to
disagree" and began exploring the common ground they
still had between them.
A father who had abused his daughters and denied
it for years found the courage to approach them and finally
admit what he had done.
A man who'd been abused by his brother, who was still
a bully, learned about the importance of setting clear
limits and began saying "no" to harmful interactions.
Parents who were sure they'd been falsely accused
found a strategy for beginning a dialogue with their son,
despite the fact that they still disagree with him about
what happened in the past.
A woman who'd written off her parents as dead reaffirmed
that she didn't want them in her life and created a ritual
that helped her grieve more fully for the parents she will
never have.
A man abused by his priest made peace with the man
who raped him and the institution that failed him-then went
on to define his own relationship with God.
Let my readers tell you for themselves:
"Three hours into listening to The
Last Frontier, I picked up the phone and called my sister
for the first time in twelve years. I was shaking and I
was scared, but I did it anyway. It felt so good to hear
her voice! Once she got over her shock, I realized she was
just as scared to talk to me as I was to talk to her. We
stayed on the phone for two hours that night and two hours
the next. Thanks to The Last Frontier, I have a
sister again."
- Ayana, Lake Oswego, New
York
"Conflicts over sexual abuse have
torn my family apart for more than a decade. Last month,
my wife and I-and our daughters-were able to attend my son's
wedding in relative peace. Thanks for teaching us to 'agree
to disagree.' It has been a great relief to know
there doesn't always have to be a war."
- Harry, San Diego, California
"For years, I carried my father's
imprint like a heavy weight on my soul. The Last Frontier
helped me let go of that weight. Now instead of
bitterness and rancor, I feel a profound sense of freedom.
I can move on now. Thank you for giving me the rest of my
life."
-Jim, Lolo, Montana
Here's what you'll receive when you order The Last
Frontier:
- Twelve audio tapes containing 15 in-depth interviews
with women and men who have resolved family relationships
that had been torn apart by sexual abuse
- A 200-page Workbook that will teach you to apply the
concepts, ideas, and practical advice in these stories to
your own life
The Last Frontier will
provide you with hours of inspirational stories, hundreds
of ideas for achieving peace and healing, an honest portrait
of what the reconciliation process is like, and all the tools
you need for deciding what's right for you in your particular
situation.
If you would like complete details
of what each story can teach you, click
here.
"The moment I started listening
to The Last Frontier, an old, rusty door inside me began
to open. Possibilities I had kept buried for decades started
to surface. After twenty years of thinking I would
never speak to my parents again, I have visited them twice
and we are starting to build a new relationship. This
is something I never thought would happen. Thank
you for teaching me to never say "never."
--Robin, Stowe, Vermont
If you order online today, I'll also send you a free Reconciliation
Toolbox. The Toolbox includes four additional resources to
help you on your path to reconciliation:
- An intimate one-hour interview with Laura and
her mother, Temme, in which they candidly describe the
incidents leading up to their estrangement, the seven years
when things were the worst between them, and the strategies,
successes and missteps they took during their process of
reconciliation.
-
A special report that tells you about the twenty most
important things survivors need to do (or not do!) when
they're considering the possibility of reconciliation.
This special report can help you avoid the heartache caused
by the most common mistakes people make when they're trying
to reconcile.
-
For more than 20 years, Mary Jo Barrett has pioneered
working with incest survivors and their families. As
founder of the Family Dialogue Project at the Center for
Contextual Change in Chicago, she has helped numerous
families ravaged by conflicts over abuse allegations to
reconcile and redefine their relationships. Several
of the families you'll meet in The Last Frontier worked
extensively with Mary Jo and her staff.
In this interview, Mary Jo talks about how she works with
families where incest has occurred. She also describes the
limits and possibilities for treating families where allegations
of abuse are disputed. Essential listening for therapists
or anyone in a situation where family members are at war
over whether abuse took place.
-
"Reconciliation News" inspires people in all
walks of life to move toward reconciliation in their lives.
Our readers includes parents who long to know their adult
children, siblings who haven't seen each other in years,
children who want to reconcile with their parents, best
friends who miss each other, and courageous visionaries
who long to see their enemies as human.
Published twice a month, each issue of "Reconciliation
News" explores new ways to heal relationships that
have ended because of anger, betrayal, and misunderstanding.
Here's what readers are saying about "Reconciliation
News"
"Reading this newsletter
reached a tiny, buried place of hope I hadn't known was
still there. Finding that place has allowed me
some perspective, engendered new healing and alerted me
to a supportive community of others like me. I feel less
alone, more optimistic and more informed about what's actually
possible."
-Jill Nagle,
founder & CEO of GetPublished.com
"When I journey
home after a challenging day of work in a hospital trauma
center, I am always incredibly pleased to find your splendid
reconciliation newsletter sitting comfortably in my e-mail
box. Your choice of diverse and peace-seeking topics
both inspire my personal growth and remind me of all that
is beautiful and good in the world."
-Linda Goode
RT, BSW
FIRST, choose which format you want.
- Complete hard copy version of The Last Frontier:
includes 12 cassette tapes in a hardback case and a 200
page spiral-bound Workbook. When you order this version
of The Last Frontier, you'll get immediate access
to the online versions of the interviews and the PDF version
of Workbook so you can start listening to the tapes and
using the Workbook even before your hard copies arrive.
The total price is $147 U.S., but I am offering this version
for $50 off as a thank you to those of you who order it
online. This brings your cost down to $97 U.S.
- Complete digital version of The Last Frontier:
includes 12 online interviews (in the form of Real Audio
files) and a PDF version of the entire Workbook, which you
can print out or read on your computer. With this digital
version, you don't have to pay for shipping and you can
access the interview tapes and the Workbook immediately
from anywhere in the world, using the Internet. You can
also print out the Workbook so you can use it and write
in it when you're not connected to the Internet.
The total price is $97 U.S., but I am offering this version
for $50 off as a thank you to those of you who order it
online. This brings your cost down to $47 U.S.
Note: If you want to store all the
audio files directly on your own hard drive, you'll need
to be sure in advance that you have enough disk space. Combined,
the files require 500 MB of disk space. Individual audio
files require 50 MB each. If you're short on space, you
can always listen to the audio files one at a time on your
computer without saving them.
NEXT click on the blue ORDER
NOW button below.
This will take you to an order page where you will select
the version of The Last Frontier that is right for
you. You'll then be taken to our secure ordering site. Just
fill in the simple order form and pay by credit card.
Once you order, you'll have access to the tapes and Workbook
in minutes. An email confirmation with instructions on how
to listen to the online version of the tapes and open the
PDF version of the Workbook will be sent to you automatically.
Click on the links in this email and you'll have immediate
access to The Last Frontier.
| Don't want to order online? You can use
our toll-free number to place your order. Just call
1-877-839-6040.
Ordering from another country? We can accept
your payment by credit card no matter where you are
in the world. Your credit card company makes the currency
conversion. Want to know the price in your country?
Go
here for a currency converter (opens in a new window). |
Yes, there is. It's my
personal guarantee to you.
If you sincerely feel that the information in The Last
Frontier is not worth the money, just send me an email
at LauraDavis@LauraDavis.net
and let me know. I will immediately refund your money. No
questions asked.
I want The Last Frontier to help you heal your family
relationships and find a greater sense of peace. If it doesn't,
you shouldn't have to pay for it.
That's my guarantee to you.
If so, click on the button below.
If for any reason, you're still not sure that The
Last Frontier is right for you, click
here to get a free copy of the Introduction. It will give
you a sample of how I'll guide you on this journey and let
you try out the kind of exercises you'll find in the Workbook.
SEND
ME THE INTRODUCTION
Wishing you continued courage and healing,
Questions? Please e-mail me at: LauraDavis@LauraDavis.net
www.LauraDavis.net |
